Conquering Year-End Anxieties and Embracing a Fresh Start
The end of the year can provoke a mix of emotions, chief among them anxiety. Reflecting on the past 12 months of experiences — good, bad and in-between — and contemplating what’s ahead can be stressful. According to a survey by the American Psychological Association, 41% of adults report that their stress increases during the holiday season.
A looming new year often makes us focus on the things we left undone — the resolutions not kept or the goals not achieved. The weight of unfulfilled expectations can be heavy, and as the year-end nears, the urge to make up for lost time can be daunting. This pressure, combined with what many call “post-holiday depression,” or winter doldrums, can sometimes make the transition into a new year feel more oppressive than exciting.
Post-holiday depression is a well-documented phenomenon, often linked to the emotional comedown after the holiday season’s highs. The festive period, with its gatherings, celebrations and a general atmosphere of cheer, contrasts with the quiet of the days that follow. As the lights come down and the decorations are packed away, the reality of a long, cold winter sets in, and with it, a sense of melancholy can be hard to shake.
The key to managing the emotions associated with the new year lies in shifting our perspective. Rather than viewing the end of the year as a deadline by which all things must be accomplished, we should see it as an opportunity for reflection and a fresh start. Here are a few mindful tips to help approach the new year with hope rather than anxiety:
Release the Pressure to Make Resolutions
Resolutions can feel like a burden, especially when they are made from a sense of obligation. Instead of pressuring yourself to set goals on January 1st, recognize that new beginnings can happen at any time of the year. There’s no rule that says you must wait until January 1st to make positive changes in your life.
Focus on What You Have Accomplished
Instead of dwelling on what you didn’t achieve, take a moment to acknowledge the successes, big and small, that you’ve experienced over the past year. Reflecting on your accomplishments can shift your mindset from one of scarcity and need to one of abundance and gratitude.
Embrace the Present Moment
Mindfulness is a powerful tool for reducing anxiety. By focusing on the present, you can reduce the tendency to dwell on the past or worry about the future. Practices like deep breathing, meditation or simply taking a walk in nature can help ground you and bring a sense of calm during this transitional period.
Set Intentions, Not Resolutions
Intentions are softer and more flexible than resolutions. They’re about the direction you want your life to take rather than specific outcomes you want to achieve (i.e. “I want to make healthy changes to my routine” rather than “I want to lose thirty pounds by March 1”). Setting intentions allows you to align your actions with your values without the pressure of rigid expectations.
Practice Self-Compassion
Be kind to yourself as the year ends. Life is unpredictable, and we all face challenges that can derail even the best-laid plans. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer a friend in a similar situation.
Make a Plan to Rest
Entering a new year armed with the right help can allow you to make a plan and ease anxieties. The end of the year is a good time to use any paid time off (PTO) you may have so you can rest, recharge and reflect before the start of a new year. You’ve earned it!
By taking a mindful approach and releasing the pressure to meet arbitrary deadlines or expectations, you can embrace the fresh start. Remember, the new year is just a date on the calendar. It’s what you make of it that truly matters.
Other Helpful Resources
- Loneliness and Loss During the Holidays
- A Guide to Holidays with Boundaries
- SAD Symptoms and How to Combat Them
- Mindful Advocates: In a unique role exclusive to Blue KC health plans, Mindful Advocates are available 24/7 at 833-302-MIND (6463). A Mindful Advocate can offer in-the-moment support and help Blue KC members access tools, including in-person, text, online therapy, and virtual care options specific to the member’s behavioral healthcare needs.
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7 free and confidential support for people in distress and prevention and crisis resources.
- In-person and virtual trainings for employer groups: The Blue KC Behavioral Health Team offers training sessions to your company or organization, including topics like seasonal depression, grief and loss during the holidays, and boundaries.
This article is brought to you by Lucet. Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas City partners with Lucet to optimize our members’ access to behavioral health services. For more information call the behavioral health number on your member ID card or login to your member portal at MyBlueKC.com. If you are experiencing a medical emergency call 9-1-1. If you are experiencing a behavioral health emergency call or text, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 9-8-8.
